Monday, April 6, 2009

~~~tiPs fOr A sPeCiAl rElAtiOnShiPs~~~

Friendship is a most beautiful thing happened to human being. We all meet some people with whom we never had a kinship, but they become so special in our life that it becomes hard to live without them. Let us see some points we should consider while playing a role in friendship. Many poets have described friendship as one of the most fascinating bond we ever make in our life.
It's the most beautiful thing that happens to us.


Let us see some important points that we should take care of if we wish to be good friend for someone:


Be a secrete admirer of your friend:
If your friend is good at something then do not praise him/her in his/her presence. Praising a person for what he/she is good, does not improve his/her qualities, but can cause over-confidence to be induced in him/her, which surely will be harmful for your friend.


Don't proved him/her wrong in public:
Take him/her away from the crowd and let him/her know where he/she is wrong. There is no point in proving your friend wrong in other's presence; it will spoil your friend's image in other's view. And additionally your friendship will be in danger.


Try to understand your friend:

Always try to understand the situation your friend is in and try to soothe him/her. It is evident that if people are undergoing some problems, they will not speak up their problems to their brothers or sisters, they will instead tell everything to their friends.


Pull Your Friend Away From Making Mistakes:
If your friend is doing something wrong, it is your duty to let him/her know it at earliest. Keep in mind; best friend has to play a role of critic if he/she wants his/her friend to stop doing wrong things. But again keep in mind not to show your friends mistakes in front of other people.


The Ego Problem:
Sometimes there could be a clash between you and your friend, and you both stop talking to each other for some time, it is not at all wrong to speak first and say sorry to your friend, no matter what happens.


Try to Teach Good Things:
If you are a true friend, you should never give your hungry friend a fish, instead, you should teach him/her how to fish, this will give your friend food for lifetime. A good friend will never wish his/her friend to be dependent on someone.

2 comments:

  1. A person cant live without boy/girl friend..but i think cant live without friend!
    B/G friends will break up.. but true friend never break with u!
    Friends will always give a big support and help u when you need someone!
    Except your own family..friends are the second family in life..!
    For me.. friends-ship never end!!

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  2. yeahhh..i agree with u..
    true friend will be forever
    and can accept the weakness of their friend

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